What do moms really want to do for Mother’s Day?

This article was first published on Medium.

Each year, Mother’s Day prompts a rush of flowers, brunch reservations, and thoughtful cards. However, recent surveys suggest many mothers prefer experiences and quality time over traditional gifts.

According to a YouGov survey of 500 American mothers, 60% said they would like to spend Mother’s Day with their children, while another 31% preferred time with their own mothers or other family members. Additionally, about 20% of mothers said they would value having some time alone.

Caridad Sanchez, a mother of two and grandmother of four who lives in Tamiami, said spending time with her family means the most to her.

“I just want to be taken out to eat with my whole family,” Sanchez said. “It doesn’t have to be fancy, just being together and enjoying a meal makes the day special.”

Dining out continues to be a popular Mother’s Day tradition. A Yelp survey showed that nearly half (48%) of mothers prefer going out to eat for Mother’s Day, with brunch especially popular among Baby Boomers. In Miami, restaurants such as Zuma, the Biltmore Hotel, and Mandolin are typically booked for their atmosphere and special menus.

Screenshot 2025 04 22 at 2.47.10 pm
A day off from responsibilities is the most desired Mother’s Day gift, followed by being taken out for a meal.

Despite this popularity, not all mothers prefer dining out. The YouGov survey found 32% would rather spend the day at home, and only 17% ranked spa treatments among their preferred activities.

When asked about gifts, 36% of mothers surveyed said they preferred experiences, such as being taken out for meals or drinks. Flowers were preferred by 31%, while handmade items (29%) and gift cards (28%) followed closely. Jewelry and spa treatments ranked lower than expected.

Screenshot 2025 04 22 at 2.49.56 pm
Survey shows most mothers prefer spending time with their children on Mother’s Day.

There remains a gap between what mothers say they want and what they typically receive. Although experiences and quality time are among the highest-ranked preferences, flowers and gift cards remain the most common gifts purchased.

Screenshot 2025 04 22 at 2.51.05 pm
Source: YouGov and Yelp

Miami offers numerous local experiences that align with mothers’ stated preferences. The Deering Estate hosts special Mother’s Day picnics and cruises along Biscayne Bay, offering relaxed family time in a scenic, historic setting. The Berry Farm provides a country-style alternative, featuring live music, outdoor activities, food trucks, and sunflower fields, which are perfect for families looking to slow down and enjoy time together. Fairchild Tropical Botanic Garden regularly holds family-friendly Mother’s Day events, encouraging casual outdoor enjoyment in a lush, peaceful environment.

The Deering Estate in Cutler Bay allows for plenty of Mother’s Day Activities. Elisa.rolle/CC BY-SA 4.0

Beyond nature-based options, Miami’s cultural and dining scene also caters to mothers who prefer experiences over material gifts. The Adrienne Arsht Center and Westchester Cultural Arts Center offer live performances and concerts perfect for a day out. For brunch lovers, spots like Zucca, Blue Matisse, and Sereia Miami will host wonderful meals tailored for Mother’s Day. More active families can participate in events like the Mother’s Day Run near Key Biscayne.

Mother’s Day Activities In Miami-Dade County

Screenshot 2025 04 22 at 2.52.43 pm
Source: Greater Miami Conventions & Visitors Bureau

As Mother’s Day approaches, focusing on experiences that emphasize connection and shared moments may provide the meaningful celebration many mothers love. These local opportunities reflect what many mothers say they want, meaningful quality time, not just traditional gifts. Miami’s range of experiences allows families to create lasting memories in ways that feel personal and intentional.

Edward Delgado is a senior majoring in Digital Interactive Media. After graduation, he plans on attending law school with a special interest in entertainment and media.